YOU

To the person reading this,

Loving yourself fully… truly, madly, deeply… It is the only way to transform your reality.

Loving yourself without question, helps you to stop chasing the ideology that is not yours. You end up seeking approval from people and situations that is not aligned with your soul.

You end up loving to spend time with your own self, you want more from the world because you deserve it.. because you are already deserving.

It is not about being arrogant/vain/self serving/selfish/obsessive, etc.

You are the only one who knows how to love you. No one else. They may come close, but outsourcing our love to someone outside of ourselves, invites the danger of being used and abused, of living in a fantasy that only ends up in a horror story or one of abject tolerance.

Anyone who comes into our lives, is a mirror to show us areas of our self that needs healing, our self that needs to be stronger, our self that needs to let go of habits that is keeping us from reaching our truest heights.

Negative outcomes become a blessing. A lesson that shows us how to value our own self beyond those around you, beyond what you were conditioned to believe.

You need to learn to CHOOSE YOU, To TRUST YOU. To find your inner GPS.

Have you tried looking in the mirror and saying “I LOVE YOU” to the person staring back at you? I found it difficult when I first tried it. … but I kept at it. Repeated it. Tears ran down. Because there is an awakening within, when you hear yourself that you love you… not from a place of vanity, rather it is coming from a place of tender love for that small child inside you, the child who was taught a love that was always conditional.

Your physical body is merely a vessel for your soul to inhabit while we experience this beautifully crazy, tumultuous existence called Life.